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Married
to the State
by Ryan McMaken
by Ryan McMaken
Following
Canadian court decisions opening up State-sponsored marriage to
same-sex couples, the American media, predictably, is all atwitter
over whether or not the United States Supreme Court will be soon
to follow suit. Yet, even before the court decision was handed down
by an Ontario court, the Canadian federal government in July of
2002 was already discussing the possibility of "withdrawing
from the marriage business and leaving it to the Church." Debate
in the United States over this matter has grown in recent years
as well, while in addition to the Canadian court decisions, American
legislatures and Congress have been increasingly debating amendments
and statutes like Massachusetts’ "Protection of Marriage Amendment"
which defines marriage specifically as a heterosexual union.
The
matter of withdrawing governments from the "marriage business"
is indeed an intriguing matter given all the strings that have been
attached to marriage by the modern State in recent centuries, and
it is important to be keep in mind that the "State" as
an organization that regulates institutions like marriage and has
de facto final jurisdiction over all religious and secular
matters within its territory is a phenomenon that is no older than
the 17th century. In the ancient and medieval worlds,
the kind of licensing and regulation (not to mention judicial activism)
that accompanies marriage today would have been unthinkable, yet
in the modern world as society has consistently given up autonomy
to the State under the fantasy that "we are the government,"
marriage has become less and less a core institution of society
and more a product of the power of government. And considering the
stacks of statutes on family law that give power to government courts,
government agencies, and unscrupulous litigators to destroy lives
in the blink of an eye, this is no small change. Any status that
the family once had as an untouchable institution was never due
to anything the State could have done, yet the daily legal and rhetorical
attacks upon the family and upon marriage are most certainly the
product of a government foolishly entrusted with the job of protecting
it.
Returning
control of marriage to non-State actors like religious groups and
private individuals is certainly not without precedent, and is anything
but a radical solution. Marriage in ancient Roman societies was
little more than a matter of mutual consent sans government license,
and in the Middle Ages, marriage was regulated solely by the Church
which lacked anything like the means of violent coercion possessed
by civil governments. Dividing up property among quarrelling spouses
at the whim of a government judge, or issuing draconian restraining
orders from one’s own children under pain of fine and imprisonment
is a State power unfathomable to even the most despotic bishop at
the height of Church power. Nevertheless, some historians have attributed
the rise of government involvement in marriage to the medieval Church.
While the Church no doubt pressured government organizations to
make laws that promoted the Church’s concept of marriage, the religious
authorities remained independent of governments in determining what
marriage would be and how it could be legitimately practiced. Anything
that did not conform to these ideas was by definition something
other than marriage. The State had virtually no say in whether marriages
could be declared invalid or whether remarriage could be permitted.
According to Church theology, marriage was a sacramental and religious
affair with any accompanying civil contracts being dependant upon
the validity of the religious rites. R.W. Southern’s work on the
medieval Church documents the Church bureaucracy that grew up around
the widespread need for the Church to act as arbitrator in a variety
of disputes, many of them marriage disputes. All of this was taking
place along side the civil authorities who retained power over criminal
law, military defense, and perhaps most importantly – taxes.
Throughout medieval Christendom with a few exceptions
marriage was no more within the jurisdiction of the secular governmental
authorities than criminal law was within the jurisdiction of a Church
hierarchy. Naturally, there were always efforts by both Church and
government organizations to expand into the jurisdictions of the
other – a constant tension that worked to the benefit of the general
public but it was not until the Reformation and the rise
of the modern State that we find the first modern example of a civil
government gaining primary control over the institution of marriage.
It
is certainly no coincidence then that the English version of the
Reformation was precipitated by a marriage dispute between Henry
VIII and Church authorities. Since medieval conventions did not
allow even a King to exercise jurisdiction over matrimonial matters
(causing many a hissy-fit from the self-indulgent monarch), Henry
declared himself to be head of the Church in England as well as
the secular government, and setting himself up as "emperor,"
forged one of the first modern States in Western history. The same
monopolization of religious and civil life under unified national
governments continued throughout Europe in the sixteenth and seventeenth
century and when the dust cleared, the State, claiming to be the
only source of sovereignty within a given territory, would take
for itself power over marriage, the family, and any other institution
that might be deemed "too important," in the eyes of the
State, to be left to a religion, or worse yet, to mere individuals.
By
the 19th century, the State had become supreme in the
regulation of marriage even in Catholic countries and State
involvement was so intricately intertwined with marriage contracts
that marriage scholar Brian Trainor has observed that, "In
the 19th century the State was regarded as a kind of
‘third party’ to the marriage contract precisely because, as representatives
of the public good, it was commonly believed to have a strong and
perfectly proper interest therein." Centuries earlier, Catholic
scholars would be contending that God was the "third
party" in a marriage, and as a sacrament, marriage did not
lend itself to having a government "third party" any more
than would the sacraments of confirmation or baptism.
It
was clear by the 19th century, however, that the State
was reigning supreme on matters of marriage since, in typical State
fashion, it arrogated to itself the role of being guardian and "representative
of the public good," and as such must have the power to be
final arbiter on marital matters and all the attendant powers that
accompany such a mission. In fact, in his pre-communist days (i.e.,
before he decided that marriage was legalized prostitution), Karl
Marx bemoaned the fact that many governments, clinging to an older
religious tradition, still regarded marriage "not as a moral,
but as a religious and church institution, hence the secular essence
of marriage is ignored." Just as he would later call upon the
State to abolish marriage, the younger Marx would set up the State
as the only acceptable and moral authority over marriage, thus signaling
the total reversal of the medieval assertion that marriage was to
be kept out of the hands of States. By the time the power of the
State was near its peak in the 19th century, ancient
conventions of marriage still largely endured even without any presence
of a powerful independent church within the State apparatus. As
long as this persisted, marriage as an institution had retained
much of its original sacramental or quasi-sacramental importance
as something more than a merely secular matter.
State
control of marriage is a double-edged sword, however, and as those
who control States have become less and less convinced of the validity
of the original Christian conceptions of marriage, the State has
become more and more active in breaking down those original conceptions
of marriage in favor of revolutionary forms. Modern church organizations,
still functioning under the assumptions of earlier centuries that
the State would use its power to protect the core attributes of
marriage, still find themselves intricately connected to the State
apparatus with government-issued marriage licenses being an intrinsic
part of most religious marriage ceremonies. This assumption that
the State protects marriage is a delusion, of course, and we find
the State "protecting" marriage
much in the same way it has "protected" public education.
Like with public education which was originally set up to bolster
American Protestant Christian values, those who thought they could
use the State to protect their view of marriage now find themselves
in the minority fighting a rear-guard battle against the complete
government takeover of marriage itself, with the once venerable
institution now subject to every trendy ideology taught in government
universities and government agencies on any given day. Many have
recognized the failure of government in education, and have withdrawn
to private home-schooling as a way out. Why not admit the State’s
failure in marriage as well?
The
question we are then left with today is one of whether the churches
and individuals should be looking to privatize marriage yet again
and to begin making a distinction between secular contracts between
private citizens and religious unions that should be kept beyond
the power of the State. Such a move, of course, would bring with
it new assumptions about the role of the State in divorce, children,
and a variety of other aspects of family life. The State will not
give up control over these things easily, for the assertion that
the importance of marriage makes it a legitimate interest of the
State is only true from the point of view of the State itself, for
as the foundation of society, marriage and family cannot be entrusted
to governments just to be blown about by the winds of democratic
opinion, for the same government that has the power to protect can
just as easily destroy.
July
14, 2003
Ryan
McMaken [send him mail]
writes from Colorado. His personal web site can be found here.
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