• Be A Lady, and Be Proud Of It!

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    has gone too far – and I began to realize it on jury duty.

    on jury duty I was absorbed in a romance novel to pass the time
    away. It wasn’t until the Judge started his speech (that I had heard
    10 times before) on the importance of jury duty that I noticed something.
    There were quite a few women that were standing. It then hit me
    that the days of being treated like a lady were truly coming to
    an end. (I began to feel guilty myself – should I take a chance
    on making the judge mad to give up a seat to a woman older than

    now have total equality, get to work outside the home (while someone
    else cares for our children), we can get shot down combat, and we
    are lucky if doors don t swing into our faces. Our husbands think
    that we ought to be able to take care of things that they used to
    take care of without them even thinking about it. (There are so
    many things that I could list, but it would take too long.) This
    is all in the name of equality.

    wonder why our husband doesn’t treat us like the romantic, fragile
    person that we are – why should he if we are equal? It is rare
    to see a little girl that is actually feminine and not a tomboy.
    (I believe that we are being taken over by tomboys.) Girls are taught
    that we can play the same games and beat any old boy out there.
    We are not all the same. We are different. Guys, generally, are
    going to be physically stronger. They are not as emotional as women
    are. Men and women are made differently for so many wonderful reasons.
    We are made to complement one another, not to fight one another
    in the battle of the sexes. Women obviously are better at nurturing.
    (After all, we are still the only ones who can give birth.) The
    list of differences could go on and on.

    can’t have our cake and eat it too. I have a girlfriend that gets
    mad at a young boy because he doesn’t show her respect. Well, an
    act like that puts a young boy and a grown woman on the same level,
    does it not? Where have all of the ladies gone? I’m not saying we
    can’t play games and have fun, but can’t we do it with actions that
    don’t make a man want to treat us like one of the guys? We have
    to act like a lady and act respectful to reap the benefits of being
    treated like a lady with respect – right? I really believe
    that women can vote, play games, and get paid a fair wage –
    and still act and get treated like a lady.

    some symbolism? I’m about ready to throw out my slacks – instead
    of burning my bra! Be a lady, and be proud of it! (Then, maybe the
    men will wake up too.)

      11, 2001

      Bragg [send her mail],
      a former Yankee, lives happily in a small town in Tennessee.

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