How Did We Ever Survive?
Looking
back, it’s hard to believe that we have lived as long as we have.
As
children, we would ride in cars with no seat belts or air bags.
Riding
in the back of a pickup truck on a warm day was always a special
treat.
Our
baby cribs were covered with bright colored lead-based paint.
We
had no childproof lids on medicine bottles, doors,or cabinets, and
when we rode our bikes, we had no helmets.
(Not
to mention hitchhiking to town as a young kid!)
We
drank water from the garden hose and not from a bottle.
We
would spend hours building our go-carts out of scraps and then rode
down the hill, only to find out we forgot the brakes.
After
running into the bushes a few times we learned to solve the problem.
We
would leave home in the morning and play all day, as long as we
were back when the streetlights came on.
No
one was able to reach us all day. No cell phones.
We
played dodgeball and sometimes the ball would really hurt.
We
got cut and broke bones and broke teeth and there were no lawsuits
from these accidents.
They
were accidents. No one was to blame but us. Remember accidents?
We had fights and punched each other and got black and blue and
learned to get over it.
We
ate cupcakes, bread and butter, and drank sugar soda but we were
never overweight...we were always outside playing.
We
shared one grape soda with four friends, from one bottle and no
one died from this?
We
did not have Playstations, Nintendo 64, X Boxes, video games at
all, 99 channels on cable, video tape movies, surround sound, personal
cellular phones, personal computers, Internet chat rooms.
We
had friends. We went outside and found them. We rode bikes or walked
to a friend’s home and knocked on the door, or rung the bell or
just walked in and talked to them.
Imagine
such a thing. Without asking a parent! By ourselves! Out there in
the cold cruel world! Without a guardian. How did we do it?
We
made up games with sticks and tennis balls and ate worms and although
we were told it would happen, we did not put out very many eyes,
nor did the worms live inside us forever.
Little
League had tryouts and not everyone made the team. Those who didn’t
had to learn to deal with disappointment. Some students weren’t
as smart as others so they failed a grade and were held back to
repeat the same grade.
Tests
were not adjusted for any reason.
Our
actions were our own. Consequences were expected. No one to hide
behind. The idea of a parent bailing us out if we broke a law was
unheard of. They actually sided with the law, imagine that!
This
generation has produced some of the best risk-takers and problem
solvers and inventors, ever.
The
past 50 years has been an explosion of innovation and new ideas.
We had freedom, failure, success and responsibility.
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