Writes Chantal Saucier: “I’ve been reading all the posts and articles about the state’s involvement with the institution of marriage with interest and, like others, I think that this is much more than a ‘gay’ issue.
“It’s no secret, for example, that marriage is included in the tax code and that some couples tie the knot (earlier than they probably should) in order to enjoy a lesser tax burden. Other times, or I should say in other places where tax laws are different, people choose not to marry (or divorce!) for the very same reason.
“Another example are people pretending not to be married anymore (claiming two addresses) so they can enjoy welfare checks and free lunches, while they live together like a happy family.
“Immigration is yet another area where we find the institution of marriage misplaced. I’m sure you have all heard of ‘green-card marriages’ and how hard it is the government to control who gets married for real and who gets married for the prized card (which is actually white). But if marriage was taken out of immigration laws, there would no incentive for people to fake marriages whatsoever (and no need for IRS marriage cops visiting people in their home to verify that one knows the color of the other one’s toothbrush!).
All the state’s regulations that include marriage in them contribute to the demise of the institution of marriage itself; this affects many more people than we realize. Couples used to marry because they loved one another, not because they could save taxes or it allowed them to live where they wanted to live.
“I think there needs to be a divorce between the state and the institution of marriage, on all levels. Of course, the state being the abusive partner in this relationship, it will likely put up a fight and make it a nasty divorce. Oh well, what else is new?”
11:55 am on July 8, 2003