Karen, I sympathize with your sentiments. Personally, I like the term Chowhound, which might have an overlapping meaning. At Chowhound.com, we learn that "Foodies eat where they're told; they eagerly follow trends and rarely go where Zagat hasn't gone before. Chowhounds, on the other hand, blaze trails, combing gleefully through neighborhoods for hidden culinary treasure. They despise hype, and while they appreciate refined ambiance and service, they can't be fooled by mere flash." The Web site introduction concludes, "If you, too, fret endlessly about making every bite count; if you'd grow weak from hunger rather than willingly eat something less than delicious, this place is for you! Welcome to our community. Let's talk. Let's swap tips."
I suggest food enthusiasts give it a look. The site and its message boards are expanding.