How To Spot a Sociopath 10 Red Flags That Could
Save You From Being Swept Under the Influence of a Charismatic Nut Job
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One of the
more offensive duties of being an investigative journalist is taking
out the trash exposing liars, fraudsters, con artists
and scammers for the people they truly are. Each time we investigate
a sociopath, we find that they always have a little cult group following
of spellbound worshippers who consider that particular sociopath
to be a "guru" or "prophet."
Sociopaths
are masters at influence and deception. Very little of what they
say actually checks out in terms of facts or reality, but they're
extremely skillful at making the things they say sound believable,
even if they're just making them up out of thin air. Here, I'm going
to present quotes and videos of some legendary sociopaths
who convinced everyday people to participate in mass suicides.
And then I'm going to demonstrate how and why similar sociopaths
are operating right now... today.
Why cover
this subject? I've seen a lot of people get hoodwinked, scammed
or even harmed by sociopaths, and it bewilders me that people are
so easily sucked into their destructive influence. I want to share
with NaturalNews readers the warning signs of sociopaths
so that you can spot them, avoid them, and save yourself the trouble
of being unduly influenced by them.
Much of this
information is derived from the fascinating book, The
Sociopath Next Door, which says that 4% of the population
are sociopaths.
The book is a fascinating read.
10 signs for
spotting a sociopath
#1) Sociopaths
are charming. Sociopaths have high charisma and tend to attract
a following just because people
want to be around them. They have a "glow" about them that attracts
people who typically seek guidance or direction. They often appear
to be sexy or have a strong sexual attraction. Not all sexy people
are sociopaths, obviously, but watch out for over-the-top sexual appetites
and weird fetishes.
#2) Sociopaths
are more spontaneous and intense than other people. They tend
to do bizarre, sometimes erratic things that most regular people
wouldn't do. They are unbound by normal social contracts. Their
behavior often seems irrational or extremely risky.
#3) Sociopaths
are incapable of feeling shame, guilt or remorse. Their brains
simply lack the circuitry to process such emotions. This allows
them to betray people, threaten people or harm people without giving
it a second thought. They pursue any action that serves their own
self interest even if it seriously harms others.
#4) Sociopaths
invent outrageous lies about their experiences. They wildly
exaggerate things to the point of absurdity, but when they describe
it to you in a storytelling format, for some reason it sounds believable
at the time.
#5) Sociopaths
seek to dominate others and "win" at all costs. They hate to
lose any argument or fight and will viciously defend their web of
lies, even to the point of logical absurdity.
#6) Sociopaths
tend to be highly intelligent, but they use their brainpower
to deceive others rather than empower them. Their high IQs often
makes them dangerous. This is why many of the best-known serial
killers who successfully evaded law enforcement were sociopaths.
#7) Sociopaths
are incapable of love and are entirely self-serving. They may
feign love or compassion in order to get what they want, but they
don't actually FEEL love in the way that you or I do.
#8) Sociopaths
speak poetically. They are master wordsmiths, able to deliver
a running "stream of consciousness" monologue that is both intriguing
and hypnotic. They are expert storytellers and even poets. As a
great example of this in action, watch this
interview of Charles Manson.
#9) Sociopaths
never apologize. They are never wrong. They never feel guilt.
They can never apologize. Even if shown proof that they were wrong,
they will refuse to apologize and instead go on the attack.
#10) Sociopaths
are delusional and literally believe that what they say becomes
truth merely because they say it! Charles Manson, the
sociopathic murderer, is famous for saying, "I've never killed anyone!
I don't need to kill anyone! I THINK it! I have it HERE! (Pointing
to his temple.) I don't need to live in this physical realm..."
Watch Charles
Manson saying this at the 3:05 mark of this
video.
How to dispel
illusion and get to the truth
Sociopaths are
masters at weaving elaborate fictional explanations to justify their
actions. When caught red-handed, they respond with anger and threats,
then weave new fabrications to explain away whatever they were caught
doing.
A sociopath
caught red-handed with a suitcase full of cash he just stole, for
example, might declare he had actually rescued the money
from being stolen by someone else, and that he was attempting to
find its rightful owner. He's the hero, see? And yet, in reality,
he will simply pocket the money and keep it. If you question him
about the money, he will attack you for questioning his honesty.
Sociopaths
are masters are presenting themselves as heroes with high morals
and philosophy, yet underneath it they are the true criminal minds
in society who steal, undermine, deceive, and often incite emotional
chaos among entire communities. They are masters at turning one
group of people against another group while proclaiming themselves
to be the one true savior. Wherever they go, they create strife,
argument and hatred, yet they utterly fail to see their own role
in creating it. They are delusional at so many levels that their
brains defy logical reasoning. You cannot reason with a sociopath.
Attempting to do so only wastes your time and annoys the sociopath.
Tip for exposing
sociopaths: Start fact-checking something they claim
One simple method
for dispelling sociopathic delusion is to start fact checking their
claims. Do any of their claims actually check out? If you start
digging, you will usually find an inconsistency. Confront the suspected
sociopath with the inconsistency and see what happens: Most sociopaths
will become angry or aggressive when their integrity is questioned,
whereas a sane person would simply be happy to help clear up any misinformation
or misunderstanding.
Beware of
fact-checking the sociopath by asking other people under his or
her influence.
A sociopath will usually have a small group of cult-like followers
who not only believe their fictional tales, but who actually internalize
those fictions to the point where they rewrite their own memories
to be consistent with them. If a guru-style sociopath talks about
his "levitation sessions" over and over again, some of his believers
will sooner or later start to form false memories in which
they imagine seeing him levitate off the floor. So if you ask those
people, "Did you actually ever see this person levitate?" They will
enthusiastically say, "Yes!" Because in their own minds, that illusion
has become something indistinguishable from a vivid memory.
That's why
fact-checking a sociopath requires evidence from outside his
circle of influence. Does anything he say actually check out
in the real world, outside his sphere of direct control? If not,
you've probably spotted a sociopath.
Sociopaths
never answer facts; they always attack the messenger
Another very valuable
red flag to recognize when trying to spot a sociopath is to see how
they deal with attacks on their own integrity. If a sociopath is presented
with a collection of facts, documents and evidence showing that he
lied or deceived, he will refuse to address the evidence and, instead,
attack the messenger!
As an investigative
journalist who exposes some of the most despicable sociopaths on
the planet, I've been attacked on every front imaginable: I'm a
secret government agent, they say. Or I'm an alien from planet Zorg.
I've heard it all, and while the accusations vary wildly, the pattern
is the same: Attack the messenger but refuse to answer the documented
allegations.
If you really
try to nail a sociopath down to answering a documented allegation,
they will quickly turn on you, denounce you, and declare that you
too are secretly plotting against them. Anyone who does not fall
for the brainwashing of the sociopath is sooner or later kicked
out of the circle and then wildly disparaged by the remaining members
of the cult group.
Inventing
bizarre tales
One of the easiest
signs to spot is how sociopaths exaggerate things to an irrational
absurdity. In the sociopath's world, every explanation is more intense
and more heroic-sounding than the way it really went down. Where a
normal person might say, "I vomited last night," a sociopath would
say, "I vomited up a 27-foot tapeworm!"
And a truly
psychotic sociopath might even add details such as, "And then the
tapeworm climbed up the wall and jumped on me and tried to strangle
me!"
You might
laugh at such an explanation, but I know lots of similar examples
that have been believed by irrational cult followers.
Every story
the sociopath weaves, often on the spur of the moment, is impossible
to either confirm or deny. No one can prove him wrong, since they
weren't there, so he can spin whatever details into the story he
wants. "After eating this, I had a three-hour ejaculation!" Or,
"The Dalai Lama wanted to anoint me as a spiritual leader, but I
declined, telling him that I only needed faith, not any official
recognition."
How can anyone
disprove such a claim? They can't. So the sociopaths relies on these
un-provable, unsubstantiated claims to build up a false aura of
authority, spirituality or knowledge. This creeps up on followers
like a serpent, slithering into their brains and taking hold of
their belief systems before they realize what has happened.
As a survivor
of the Jim Jones "Jonestown" mass suicide says in a PBS documentary
video (see link below), "Everything was plausible [at the time],
except in retrospect the whole thing seems bizarre."
That's how
sociopaths operate. As they're speaking, they capture your imagination
and sound reasonable, even authoritative. But in the clear light
of day, what they are actually saying is absurd... even dangerous.
But no matter
what fictions are presented by the sociopath, they always present
him in the light of a hero sometimes even a saint
who sacrifices his life for the good of others. He often talks of
"healing" or "detoxification" or being "cleansed." When he is exposed
by truth-tellers, he merely accuses the truth-tellers of being secret
undercover agents. When he is accused of sexual assault by one of
his own followers (a common occurrence in these circles), he denounces
her as an enemy or a spy.
The ultimate
destination of a sociopath is to destroy himself and take as many
willing victims with him as possible. This is the Jim Jones scenario:
Drink the Kool-Aid laced with poison, and thereby prove your worth
to your entire cult group.
A common theme
of poison, sainthood, redemption
Interestingly,
many sociopaths do indeed center their actions around a bizarre food
or drink theme, often demanding their members eat or drink poisonous
or highly offensive substances that no rational person would otherwise
consume. The Heaven's Gate cult, for example, was led by a
classic sociopath named Marshall Applewhite. He managed to convince
38 followers to kill themselves by eating applesauce laced with phenobarbital.
Watch the
fascinating video of Applewhite here and ask yourself: Would
you follow this man to your own grave? (Other people did!)
Notice how
Applewhite speaks with authority, clarity and some level of charisma.
Notice the intensity of his eyes? This is another common trait among
sociopaths (including Manson, above). Remember, this man gained
such influence over his followers that they voluntarily killed themselves
in order to maintain his approval!
As Wikipedia
explains:
On March
19–20, 1997, Marshall Applewhite taped himself speaking of mass
suicide and asserted "it was the only way to evacuate this Earth."
The Heaven's Gate group was against suicide but they believed
they had no choice but to leave Earth as quickly as possible.
After claiming that a space craft was trailing the comet Hale-Bopp,
Applewhite convinced 38 followers to commit suicide so that their
souls could board the supposed craft. Applewhite believed that
after their deaths, a UFO would take their souls to another "level
of existence above human," which Applewhite described as being
both physical and spiritual. This and other UFO-related beliefs
held by the group have led some observers to characterize the
group as a type of UFO religion. In October 1996, the group purchased
alien abduction insurance to cover up to 50 members at a cost
of $10,000.
The cult
rented a 9,200-sq.-ft. mansion, located at 18241 Colina Norte
(later changed to Paseo Victoria), in a gated community of upscale
homes in the San Diego-area community of Rancho Santa Fe, California
from Sam Koutchesfahani, paying $7,000 per month in cash. The
thirty-eight Heaven's Gate members, plus group leader Applewhite,
were found dead in the home on March 26, 1997. In the heat of
the California spring, many of the bodies had begun to decompose
by the time they were discovered. The corpses underwent autopsies,
where cyanide and arsenic were found. The bodies were later cremated.
The suicide
was accomplished by ingestion of phenobarbital mixed with applesauce
or pudding, washed down with vodka. Additionally, plastic bags
were secured around their heads after ingesting the mix to induce
asphyxiation. Authorities found the dead lying neatly in their
own bunk beds, faces and torsos covered by a square, purple cloth.
Each member carried a five-dollar bill and three quarters in their
pockets. All 39 were dressed in identical black shirts and sweat
pants, brand new black-and-white Nike Decades athletic shoes,
and armband patches reading "Heaven's Gate Away Team" (one of
many instances of the group's use of the Star Trek fictional universe's
nomenclature). The adherents, between the ages of 26 and 72, are
believed to have died in three groups over three successive days,
with remaining participants cleaning up after each prior group's
death.
This episode
speaks directly to the mind-altering power of sociopaths. Their
delusions can be so convincing that followers will even kill themselves
in order to stay in alignment with the expectations of the group.
I know of a fringe health sociopath operating right now who has
killed several of his own followers, but of course he always blames
them for their own deaths. It's never his fault, you see.
Sadly, even
when one sociopath kills himself (and takes a few of his followers
with him), there is always another sociopath waiting to take his
place, seeking power, influence, and sometimes fame. It is common
for sociopaths to strongly desire to be on television shows or to
desperately seek out opportunities for short-term fame, often from
engaging in bizarre acts or staging strange events. This is one
of the ways in which they recruit followers to join their cult.
Jim Jones
and drinking the Kool-Aid
The most horrifying
master of sociopathic delusion was, of course, Jim Jones who
convinced 900+ people to kill themselves by drinking poisoned Kool-Aid.
And people
loved him for it! They felt inspired, excited, healed and guided.
Jim Jones was their savior, their prophet. They believed his every
word, and they paid for their foolish belief with their lives.
Watch this
powerful PBD documentary video about Jonestown.
As
Jim Jones proved, people can be easily swept up into an irrational
belief in a guru or prophet who quite literally plans to murder
them.
This is the
other dominant factor we see in dangerous sociopaths: An odd obsession
with dead things, rotting things, putrid things... things that would
cause a normal, mentally balanced person to shrink away in horror.
Jim Jones, for example, was fascinated with death and would reportedly
murder small animals and then hold funerals for them.
Jones was
a master at invoking spiritual concepts and presenting himself as
spiritually evolved. This is another common theme among sociopaths,
and you see it among Applewhite, Manson, Jones and even present-day
sociopaths who are operating in America right now.
Historically,
perhaps the best example of a delusional sociopath was none other
than Adolf Hitler. He showed all the classic signs: A brilliant
orator, a congenital liar, a complete lack of compassion for others,
a dominant, aggressive personality, and the invoking of spirituality
to justify his actions. The Nazi Swastika symbol, in fact, is a
derivation of the Flower of Life symbol derived from sacred geometry.
(http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1KMxmJVtp2Y)
The modern
sociopath: A threat to us all
Sociopaths
aren't just a relic of history; I see their kind operating today,
in 2012. A surprising number of people continue to fall for the
delusional (but convincing) web of lies spun by wordsmithing sociopaths
who may operate in almost any area of society: Science and physics,
New Age circles, fringe health, self improvement and even "pop"
spiritual development.
People from
all walks of life allow themselves to be fooled by these sociopaths,
buying into their false narratives, toxic products and destructive
behavioral patterns, all driven into their heads through a complex
web of social engineering, linguistics and emotional influence.
Most people are completely unaware they have been mesmerized into
these cult groups, just like the Jonestown people were completely
unaware... or the Heaven's Gate crowd.
There are
people today, right now, who are zealous members of fringe cults
that advocate drinking toxic metals dissolved in sulfuric acid,
eating rotten meat festering with deadly bacteria, playing with
poisonous snakes or even dehydrating yourself in a sweat lodge to
the point where you suffer hallucinations that are then interpreted
as "spiritual guidance."
These cults
are operating right here in America, and they are led by sociopaths
who follow in the footsteps of monsters like Jim Jones and Marshall
Applewhite. Some of today's cult followers will pay for their misplaced
faith with their lives. Others will eventually come to their senses
and wonder how they could have been so completely blinded by a false
prophet.
Seven rules
for personal empowerment (without joining a cult)
The most shocking
realization to take home from all this is that people who live
under the spell of a sociopath almost never realize it until after
the spell has been broken. Just as the worshippers of Jim Jones believed
his organization to be based in love, life and light, people today
who worship sociopathic, charismatic leaders usually have no idea
they have already surrendered their will to someone who does not have
their best interests at heart.
This is why,
here at NaturalNews, I have always taught people the following authentic
principles of responsibility and power:
#1) Think
for yourself. Be skeptical of everything. Most people, corporations,
governments and institutions are lying to you. There is much good
in the world, but there is far more selfishness and greed which
is falsely presented as that which is good.
#2) Follow
your inner truth, not some external guru. Any guru who demands your
obedience is a false prophet. A real teacher is one who empowers
you and sets you free to explore your life experience with complete
freedom tempered by a code of morals and personal responsibility.
#3) Serve
in the protection of life, with or without a church or spiritual
group. You can protect life every day in your own garden. Resist
the seduction of profit and power that comes from serving darkness
(i.e. working for Big Pharma). Seek to protect life, which is sacred
and precious.
#4) Value
all living things, including animals and plants. You are their shepherd.
Protect the diversity of life and the integrity of the continuation
of life. (For example, resist GMO and plant only non-hybrid seeds.)
#5) Live an
authentic life. Practice what you teach. Walk your talk. Do not
speak with one face and then secretly act out another. Spiritual
strength comes from spiritual authenticity, and even if the world
isn't aware of what you do when no one is looking, God and the universe
most certainly are. Karma counts.
#6) Defend
the innocent. Stand your ground against bullies. Resist tyranny.
Promote freedom, liberty and justice. Help others when you can,
and seek to empower others with the skills and knowledge they can
use to support themselves rather than creating dependency.
#7) Tell the
truth. It is powerful... perhaps the most powerful thing in the
universe. The truth unfailingly outshines lies and deceptions. And
even when the people around you may not see the truth, the greater
universe does. By telling the truth, you empower yourself in all
areas of your life, and you bring yourself closer to true spiritual
understanding.
Reprinted
with permission from Natural
News.
November 26, 2012
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