If there remains a lingering sense among older generations of men that cooking is u201Cwomen's work,u201D I would think it is probably fading greatly among the younger set. True, for much of human history men did the hunting/farming and women did the cooking, and this arrangement continued to work well into the 20th century. Young men made a quick transition from living with their flapjack-flipping mother, to settling down with a meatloaf-making wife. Or, he lodged at boarding houses that provided victuals along with a bed.
But those days are long gone; accommodations that come with a cook are now virtually non-existent (although it lives on in fraternity houses), and men are remaining bachelors longer – well into their late 20s and early 30s. As all modern men still need to eat virtually every single day, the only choice that remains is either starving…or being completely dependent on restaurant meals and take-out food.
Maturing into a grown man means becoming self-sufficient, so daily dependence isn't an option. Further, not only does learning to cook help you become more independent, it offers other benefits as well:
Keeps you healthy and strong. When you cook for yourself, you know and control exactly what you put in your mouth. Almost anything you make for yourself, even the same dish served at a restaurant, will have less salt, fat, calories, and additives than the commercially-made variety.
Saves you money. Sure, it is possible to eat cheaply by ordering all your food off the dollar menu, but while fast food won't clip your wallet, it will take a toll on your health, which will cost you big bucks down the line. When it comes to making real, wholesome food, cooking at home is generally cheaper than eating out.
Impresses the ladies. As a young man, you're going to be dating, and nothing impresses a gal like a man who can invite her back to his place for a home-cooked meal.
Gives you enjoyment. No, I don't always enjoy cooking. But when you have time and are in the right mood, it can be very satisfying to create something tasty for you and for your friends/family.
Now, I'm not a home cooking zealot. Sometimes the way I feel about cooking can be summed up in this comic from The Oatmeal; it can seem like it is more hassle than it's worth, and when you're super busy and stressed, the convenience of take-out is a lifesaver. The key is striking a balance, and you can't do that if you can't cook anything beyond toast and ramen.
The good news here is that while gourmet chef-ery takes a lot of training and practice, simple cooking can be learned by anyone who knows how to read. So in this post, we cover many of the basics a young man who's never cooked for himself needs to know to get started. First we'll talk about how to stock your kitchen with equipment and your pantry with staple items. Then we'll talk about a few basic skills and bits of know-how you need to learn in order to cook edible, hopefully delicious, food. Finally, because you don't need to amass the kitchen equipment listed below all at once, we'll talk about some things you can cook when your options and tools are limited.
Let's get started.
Stocking Your Kitchen: Essential Equipment
For this section, I had AoM's food writer, Matt Moore, give us the lowdown on how to outfit your kitchen. Here's what he had to say:
For me, it's always about quality over quantity. Instead of investing in specialty garlic presses, zesters, or other gimmicks – just give me a killer knife that'll do all those jobs and not get lost in my junk drawer. Less is always more.
For that reason I've put together my list of essential kitchen equipment needed for every guy. You don't need to go out immediately and stock your kitchen with everything listed here. You can acquire this stuff over time. Be resourceful and check yard sales, flea markets, or online outlets that offer these items at great deals. Meanwhile, improvise and make the most of what you have.
Hardware: Pots/Pans/Baking Dishes
- (1) Small 2.5-qt Pot with Lid – terrific for making sauces, steaming veggies, or heating liquids.
- 1 Large 6-qt Pot with Lid – perfect for boiling pasta or potatoes.
- 9×13 Pyrex Baking Dish – a must have for baking or roasting.
- 12-Inch Cast Iron Skillet – cast iron cookware is inexpensive and will last a lifetime. On top of that, it cooks evenly, retains heat, and is also believed to keep you healthy by supplying a steady dose of iron to your diet. For more tips on use and care, check out my post from last month!
- 12-Inch Non-Stick Skillet with Glass Lid – the non-stick surface makes cleanup quick and easy.
- Dutch Oven Style Pot with Lid – enameled cast iron is the best option; however any pot with a heavy bottom will do the trick. Great for making soups and braising meats.
- Grill Pan – a fantastic substitute for a grill. I prefer cast iron grill pans over the non-stick versions.
- Non-Stick Baking Sheet – super cheap, and probably one of my most utilized items in the kitchen.
Tools and Accessories: For the Utility Drawer
- 8-Inch Chef’s Knife with a Sharpening Steel – a chef's best friend. Don't go cheap here.
- Can Opener – I prefer the manual ones – still never figured out the electronic versions.
- Box Cheese Grater – I like these because it provides several different options in one; a slicer, a rough grate, a fine grate, and an extra fine grate for harder cheeses. Choose one with a large base to provide more stability.
- Food Processor/Blender – the workhorse of the kitchen. Great for saving time and creating specialized dishes.
- Pepper Mill – indispensable for any kitchen. Fresh cracked pepper is worth the extra effort, and this tool makes it easy to always have it on hand.
- Measuring Cups and Spoons – these will be absolutely necessary to make sure you are getting the right measurements when following recipes.
- Pot Holder/Oven Mitt – because I don't know anyone who likes to burn themselves. A folded towel will also work.
- Spatula – my preference is stainless steel slotted spatulas.
- Tongs – great for when you need a more precise touch.
- Vegetable Peeler – fantastic for peeling fresh vegetables or shaving cheeses.
- Wine Opener – I prefer the ones that also have a bottle opener. A drill, drywall screw, and pliers will do the trick if you find yourself in a bind. Trust me.
- Potato Ricer/Masher – a ricer is a great tool for making silky smooth mashed potatoes. A masher is an even cheaper and more versatile tool that will provide a more rustic consistency.
- Digital Meat Thermometer – a useful tool to make sure your meat is always perfectly cooked.
- Cutting Board – I prefer a large wood cutting board over any other surface. Make sure it has a solid footing, so as not to slide while cutting.
- Whisks – extremely versatile; fantastic for making vinaigrettes, dressings, or even a roux.
- Wooden Spoon – heatproof and durable, I like having these in several different sizes.
- Colander – a must-have for draining, washing, straining, or rinsing.
Serving/Storage Items: For the Cupboards
- Flatware
- Assorted Serving Plates or Platters
- Assorted Mixing/Serving Bowls
- Storage Containers
- Storage Bags
- Plastic Wrap
- Aluminum Foil
- Wax/Parchment Paper
Thanks Matt! Now let's take a look at stocking your pantry.
Stocking Your Pantry: The Essentials
These are the things that will come in handy for a variety of recipes or a spontaneous meal idea, and are always good to have on hand.
- All-purpose flour
- Baking powder
- Baking soda
- Brown sugar
- Honey
- Oats
- Sauces (Soy sauce, BBQ sauce, hot sauce, etc.)
- Cornstarch
- Peanut butter
- White sugar
- Olive oil
- Cans of beans
- Diced tomatoes/tomato paste/tomato sauce
- Herbs and spices (salt, pepper, Italian & Mexican seasonings, crushed red pepper, garlic powder, onion powder, curry powder, chili powder, basil, cilantro…whatever seasonings you enjoy)
- Instant broth (cans or cubes)
- Pasta and other noodles
- Rice
How to Read a Recipe
It's true (and is often said) that all you need to know in order to cook is how to read a recipe. But how do you read a recipe? These tips will up your chances of culinary success.
1. First things first, read through the recipe in its entirety. It's easy to look only at a recipe's ingredients before deciding to make something. But when it comes time to prepare the dish, you may find you don't have a tool or ingredient that may only be mentioned in the directions, or that it's a lot more complicated than you thought, and a little above your pay grade. If the recipe includes terms you don't recognize, look them up.
2. Add up how much time it will take. Be sure to check out the u201Cprep timeu201D (slicing, stirring, can-opening) and u201Ccook timeu201D (baking, frying, grilling). Add them up to find the total time needed to complete the dish. If it's your first time making a certain recipe, it will definitely take you longer than the given time; give yourself an ample cushion.
3. Make sure you have all the ingredients. If you think you might have something already, but aren't sure, check to see. Also make sure it's still fresh. Then write a list of all the ingredients you don't have on hand.
4. Take note of what you need to do before the preparations begin. Before you start slicing, dicing, and mixing, you may need to do things like preheat the oven, soften butter, or defrost meat.
5. Set out all of your ingredients and tools. Line up everything you will need: bowls, pans, and utensils are on the counter, ingredients are measured and ready to go. This will not only make things smoother as you go along, saving you from dashing to and from the fridge and the cupboards, but it's basically a chance to check off the recipe's ingredient and supply list one more time; you don't want to get halfway through your preparations, only to realize you're cup short of the required 1 cup of flour.
Measuring Ingredients
Dry Measurements Versus Wet Measurements
When a recipe calls for a cup of this, and 2 cups of that, the tool you reach for depends on whether the ingredient is dry or wet (if it's pourable – oil, sauce, milk u2014 it's wet).
There are two options: wet measuring cups and dry measuring cups. While they technically each hold the same volume, there are reasons why you should choose one or the other for respective ingredients.
A liquid measuring cup has small measurement gradients printed up the side, and the top fill line sits well below the spout, so you don't spill any liquid when you pick up the cup. When you fill a wet measuring cup, don't hold it in your hand – put it on a level surface and squat down to make sure the liquid is sitting right at the desired mark.
Dry measuring cups are meant to be filled up to the very top, and then leveled off with a knife. If you filled a dry measuring cup to the very brim with a liquid, you'd be bound to spill some. And if you used a wet measuring cup for a dry ingredient, you wouldn't be able to level it off.
Here's how you fill a dry measuring cup with a few common ingredients:
- Flour – lightly spoon into cup and level off with knife. Don't tap the cup to settle, or pack in with spoon or fingers.
- White sugar – scoop directly from bag/container. Level off with knife.
- Brown sugar – scoop and then press with back of a spoon until the sugar is level with the brim of the cup.
- Peanut butter/shortening – pack with spatula (spraying the cup with cooking spray before using PB will result in it sliding out easier).
Tablespoons Versus Teaspoons
A common mistake beginner cooks make is to confuse the tablespoon with the teaspoon, as they are often abbreviated in recipes in different ways, and these abbreviations are very similar. You may see any of the following:
- Tablespoon: T, tb, tbs, tbsp, tblsp, tblspn. (May be capitalized or lower case)
- Teaspoon: t, ts, tsp, tspn. (Almost always lower case)
A tablespoon is larger than a teaspoon. In the US, one tablespoon equals three teaspoons.
You can use tablespoons and teaspoons for both wet and dry ingredients. A recipe may call for a level or rounded amount; rounded roughly sits above the rim of the spoon, level is done by scraping off the top with a knife.
Butter
A stick of butter will have the measurements printed on the wrapper of each stick. Just mark off what you need and cut through the butter, wrapper and all.
Basic Cooking Skills Every Young Man Should Master
There are tons of cooking techniques out there, and down the road you may want to learn to make a souffl or smoke some ribs. But it really only takes a few basic how-tos to keep yourself well-fed and happy.
First we'll cover one of the most basic of the basics – how to make pasta – and then I invite you to click on the images below to learn more simple, but handy, skills.
How to Make Pasta
Pasta is an especially good option for young men; it's cheap, versatile, and relatively good for you (depending on what you add to it). It's also really simple to make. At least, it should be. But I didn't realize I was making it wrong until after I got married; Kate was aghast to see me put the pasta in right after filling up the pot with water, instead of waiting for the water to boil. A recipe for mushy pasta. Here's how to do it right:
1. Use about 5 quarts of water for a pound of pasta. That sounds like a lot, but a common mistake is to use too little water, which leads to the pasta sticking and clumping together. When planning your mealtime, keep in mind that that much water takes a while to boil, especially because you want to start with cold water (as it absorbs the least amount of impurities from your pipes).
2. Choose a pot that will leave you some room on top, so the water doesn't boil over. 5 quarts of water in an 8-quart pot works well. If all you've got is a 6-quart-er, just keep a close eye on it.
3. Bring water to a rolling boil. This means it's boiling across the whole surface of the water and you can't stop the boil by stirring it. Putting a cover on the pot will help it reach this point faster.
4. Once boiling, add two tablespoons of salt. The salt boosts the boiling temperature slightly and adds a little flavor to the pasta. But fear not – it only raises the pasta's sodium content a tiny bit.
5. Add the pasta, and stir it around immediately to keep it from sticking together, as the strands release their starch as they hit the heat. Stir the pot again every few minutes until pasta is done.
6. Consult the pasta package for relatively accurate cooking time. A minute before the minimum given cooking time on the package is up, fish out a strand with tongs and bite into it. The consistency you're looking for is u201Cal denteu201D (Italian for u201Cto the toothu201D) – tender, but with a little bite. Keep in mind that the pasta will continue to cook a bit even after you remove it from the heat.
7. As soon as the pasta reaches desired doneness, dump it into a colander. Pick up the colander and give it a few shakes to get the water out. But don't overstrain it – a little wetness works well with sauce. Don't rinse the pasta either (unless you're making a cold pasta salad), as it rinses away the starch that coats each strand, and this starch will help the sauce stick to the pasta.
8. Toss pasta with sauce immediately, if you can. If you can't, toss the pasta with a little olive oil to keep the strands from sticking to each other.
