At least that is how I approach the stress-fest. I ditched optimism years ago and accept that the probability of a ruined dinner and a row is high by way of insuring against Christmas calamity.
This is not because Im one of those party-planning generals who undertakes a course in napkin origami and creative table décor in November. If anything, the strategy is based on paring it all down. I have learnt the hard way; the following these 12 fates are always with me.
1. Search the house
You did, you know you did, buy a few little handmade wooden toys in Turkey last summer, thinking theyd be perfect presents, then you hid them. Avoid the irritation of coming across them next July and turn the place upside down.
2. Resist railway travel
Those planning train journeys must rethink. Anything including a lift from a hated relative whose dog has bad breath will be less traumatic.
3. Bend the knees
Osteopaths report a surge of calls from people who slip discs pulling 28lb turkeys out of the deep freeze.
4. Under-organise
Cancel the Aga/cooker/boiler service. Engineers with after-party sore heads forget to tighten vital screws or valves. Like a doomed space satellite, your kitchen infrastructure heads for collapse, transpiring just as the helpline shuts down for the break.
5. Resist recycling
Giving away unwanted presents from last year will backfire. Can you keep a straight face as the recipient opens an especially naff box of bath pearls? A relationship-busting crime is to mistakenly return a gift to its original donor.
6. Avoid obvious danger
Recalling here the fate of one of my friends who decided she could not be bothered to cook, ordered a takeaway and gave everyone a dose of food poisoning.
7. Take nothing for granted
You do not have wide-gauge aluminium foil left over from last year; nor enough candles, salt, onions, cans of peeled chestnuts or cloves for the bread sauce and glazed ham.
8. Christmas Day is sacred
Very little need be done on the day, so everyone is free to go to church. The stuffing, potato peeling, sprout preparation, bread sauce base, brandy butter, giblet stock, cranberry sauce and knife-sharpening can all be done the previous day.
9. Think big
Turkeys do not fit in conventional roasting tins. Unless, as I once did, you want to roast it after sawing it in half, buy a big tin.
December 22, 2010