DARE To Kill Families

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their role in cuffing dope pushers and supporting the DARE program,
cops in one Massachusetts town were recently awarded a $1,000 by
a local drug-abuse prevention organization. A job well done: Only
part of which involved undermining the family and the relationship
between parent and child – but an important part.

the DARE program has come under intense criticism in the state,
resulting in drastic funding cuts, Marshfield, Massachusetts, Police
Lieutenant Phil Tavares has been fulsome in praise for the anti-drug
school program. Reports
the July 8 Boston Globe, “Tavares said he has received only
positive feedback about the program and he firmly believes it’s
a needed resource. As an example, he talked about the recent case
of a DARE graduate who called the police on his mother after finding
marijuana in the house.”

yeah. That’s good: Fink on your mom.

nothing new. DARE has always warred on the family, pitting kids
against parents. Writes Diane Barnes in the Detroit News,
“Children are asked to submit to DARE police officers sensitive
written questionnaires that can easily refer to the kids’ homes.
And you might be surprised by a DARE lesson called ‘The Three R’s:
Recognize, Resists, Report,’ which encourages children to tell friends,
teachers or police if they find drugs at home.”

I point out in my book, Bad
Trip: How the War Against Drugs is Destroying America
, drug
arrests in a number of states have been tied directly to children
ratting on parents. The reason is simple enough: DARE classes are
taught by cops, who are duty-bound to follow up on tips from kids.
The Wall Street Journal reported two Boston cases in which
“children who had tipped police stepped out of their homes carrying
DARE diplomas as police arrived to arrest their parents.”

we are keen enough to see them for what they are, we should be thankful
for such horrifying news items. For all its destruction to families,
the DARE program tips the hand of the drug-war establishment in
one important regard: It brilliantly highlights the fact that the
State will tolerate no competing authority. Its goals are absolute.

Oxford Don C.S. Lewis in one of my favorite essays of his, “The
modern State exists not to protect our rights but to do us good
or make us good – anyway, to do something to us or make us something.”
We, in this scheme, have no right to make ourselves something or
do things for ourselves unless our aims fit within those of State’s,
for as Lewis continues, “We are less their subjects than their wards,
pupils, or domestic animals. There is nothing left of which we can
say to them, ‘Mind your own business.’ Our whole lives are
their business.”

uppity slaves will be tolerated. For the State, the province of
our very will and desires are seen as under its jurisdiction. They
only wait to be conquered – along with the other intermediary authorities
that stymie the State’s advance, which is why down through the years
ambitious governments have warred on churches, businesses, communities,
and families – precisely because it they will allow no other competing
loyalties. It doesn’t matter what the agenda is; the State wants
total support and involvement from its subjects. Divided loyalties
must be squashed, even if it means, in the case of the drug war,
ratting on a parent or finking on a friend. The State’s word is
both law and final. And that means, however much you may love your
mother, if you find a doobie in her drawer, you call the cops.

teenagers feel comfortable talking about problems with police – you
can’t beat that,” said Travers to the Globe. Translation:
Replacing parents as the confidants of their children is key to
the State’s absolutist goals. The child must be taught to see his
true loyalties in the camp of the police, not his parents. He must
be taught to come to the police with any infraction of his parents’,
so the true object of his loyalties can mete out the proper punishments
for nonsubmission to the goals of the State.

course, the drug-war’s undermining of parental authority started
long before DARE, and the program is not the ultimate focus of this
discussion. We are looking at how the drug war as a State project
undermines rival authorities. Go back to something foundational
to the both the war on drugs and the undermining of parents: The
moment the government took parents out of the position of training
children in the proper use of intoxicants – i.e., by banning particular
substances across the board, regardless of the user’s age or the
drug’s purpose – it began chipping away at its rivals and their authority
over children.

the State this is paramount. We must never forget what children
are for the State: both potential tools and threats. Because just
as children are subject to their parents, they are also subject
to the State and someday, once mature, will be primarily subject
to it. If children are raised by parents to value individual freedom
and choice, the rival authority of parental control is simply exchanged
for self-control and the State’s domain is not much increased. If
their parents encourage them to extreme levels of individuality,
their resultant autonomy can lead directly to decreases in state
power; ergo, they become a threat.

gain substantial control over the individual (turn him into an ally
and stifle the threat his autonomy represents), the State must assert
control early and broadly – removing from parents the ability to properly
empower children with much sense at all of self-determination and
autonomy. The child must learn to see the State as the final authority,

the state controls not merely the individual’s body but as much
of his spirit as it can preempt,” writes social critic Christopher
Lasch in his 1977 book, Haven
in a Heartless World
. “The citizen’s entire existence has
now been subjected to social direction, increasingly unmediated
by the family or other institutions to which the work of socialization
was once confined. Society itself has taken over socialization or
subjected family socialization to increasingly effective control.
Having thereby weakened the capacity for self-direction and self-control,
it has undermined one of the principal sources of social cohesion,
only to create new ones more constricting than the old, and ultimately
more devastating in their impact on personal and political freedom.”

drug war and its ancillary programs like DARE are only part of this
undermining of the family, but everyone concerned about the State’s
intrusion into the private lives of individuals and families must
see the attack on all fronts.

when you next spy a DARE bumper sticker or T-shirt, remember that
the Statist usurpers of parental authority are afoot and, whether
you use illicit substances or not, they distrust and oppose your
role as parent. As we all know, these days it takes a village to
raise a child, and sometimes you’ve got to throw a few moms and
dads in prison for the kid to grow up properly servile.

13, 2004

Miller [send him mail] is the
author of Bad
Trip: How the War Against Drugs is Destroying America

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