afternoon when Ron and Sara proceeded to become one flesh, and
an artifact of globalization, as well as married to the gills,
their fool dog Toby was eating avocadoes in the yard again, which
in a dog means he don’t got the sense God give a Democrat. But
he’s agreeable, which is more important than intelligence in a
dog. And most people.
don’t know Ron and Sara. Ron is what Yankees call a Good Ol’ Boy,
with capital letters so they can feel lofty, and worldly, and
knowing. Yankees are idiots. Anyway, “Good Ol’ Boy” means somebody
with judgement* and a Southern accent. (Yankees
are a mess. It’s hard to believe, but some of them think “red”
is a word of one syllable. The schools went down something terrible
Dixie plays, Ron stands with his hand over his heart, which shows
he has his values straight. He eats avocadoes too, like Toby,
only he usually peels them. He understands trucks. And politics.
And ‘gators, the which are all over Florida.
is sure how Ron caught Sara. Everyone agrees that he married above
himself. It’s not that Ron isn’t upstanding and admirable. It’s
just that a first-rate Mexican woman is hard to compete with.
I know three gringos married to Mexicanas, and one more who might
be if she recognized my virtues. In every case, the man is doing
better than he ought. (I just hope Mexican women don’t read this.
If they found out what dirtbags we are, they’d probably marry
each other. Like feminists.)
Sara looks to be pure Aztec, and might weigh ten pounds if she
were holding a twelve-pound dumbbell. She’s smart as a whip. I
don’t mean your modern dumbed-down socially promoted whip. I mean
one with high boards and a degree from Tulane. She’s a nurse.
She’s funny, and real nice, and no crazier than the baseline for
their backyard where they were getting married is broad and green,
and littered with avocadoes that Toby hasn’t gotten around to
yet, with shade trees and a rooftop flat place that’s wonderful
for watching the brawling-ass lightning storms they have around
here. And huge sunsets that look like a Chinese lacquer lamp with
a light bulb inside. There’s a casita out back for visitors.
isn’t high-end housing because Ron and Sara can’t afford it. It’s
just pretty and comfortable with a fireplace and gorgeous view
of the mountains and the brawling-ass lightning storms and quiet
and peaceful, and I guess I’m starting to wonder why it isn’t
high-end housing. Didn’t cost enough, I guess.
started showing up in early afternoon. I was sitting in Ron’s
office with Ron, who had the willies. It wasn’t doubt. He didn’t
have any. It was just that marriage is like quadruple-bypass surgery
and you haven’t seen the doctor’s diploma but he’s holding a Buck
knife and an ice-cream scoop. Outside, folks appeared in droves:
Ron the Mechanic, Don the dirt-floored Kentuckian with the maxed-out
dune buggy, Lex Luther and the Toad Queen, Tommy and Luz, La Fantasma,
Crazy Fred the Alleged Writer (a bad influence, I can tell you),
and a whole lot of Messicans.
may be that some beer wasn’t in the yard. The rest of it was.
you’ve got two kinds of gringos here. The first kind live in gated
retirement communities to keep Mexico out. I think the locals
hope the gates will keep them in. I do. They don’t mix with the
country. After ten years, they are still saying, “Grah-shuss.”
you’ve got Ron, who doesn’t need gates. You could drop him in
a remote town in China and a week later he’d know everybody worth
knowing and have a sweetheart of a girlfriend and be holding barbecues.
He fits here. Besides, Mexicans are basically Southerners with
a pronunciation problem. It’s why I like them.
I sat under the trees and ate ribs and scratched Toby’s ears and
chatted with Sara, who looked nervous but hadn’t yet gotten into
her wedding paraphernalia. Don the dirt-floored Kentuckian came
over and we talked dune buggies. What they do here is take the
motor off a VW bus, mount it on a tube-frame buggy chassis with
a serious roll-cage, do things to the engine that would surprise
the hell out of German engineers who thought it was a family car,
and stick big tires and a heavy transaxle on it. The result looks
like the automotive equivalent of Spiderman.
babies in Georgia have been known to be born with a Isky in
one hand. The South is a place that understands muscle cars. And
Don’s dune rocket was every bit of that.
we’re trying to get these folks married. Sara disappeared, Toby
started chasing somebody’s toy poodle as if he didn’t know he’d
been fixed, and Ron showed up in a tux. Nobody else much noticed
because after all weddings seem kind of normal if you aren’t in
them, and there were lots of ribs and beer.
nice lawyeress from Chapala was there and ready. Mexico believes
in separation of church and state, as distinct from persecution
of the church by the state, so they needed a JP. Somebody banged
on a glass with a fork and said, hey, we’re here to do this so
shut up and let’s do it. Everybody shut up because it was the
right thing to do and anyway they liked Ron and Sara.
popped out of the house looking like a million pesos that hadn’t
been devalued for a while. As a color scheme, Aztec on white works
just real well. I grabbed my digital chimera and prepared to immortalize
the moment for such posterity as mattered. Which includes readers
of this column, and that’s why the picture is there.
guess it worked. They’re still married and say they like it, and
I go over every couple of weeks to eat ribs and visit. Alexia,
who is Sara’s daughter from a previous marriage, is smart as her
mother, which is a pretty high benchmark, and makes A’s in school.
Sara’s a wicked cook and a tremendous gal. Toby is hopeless. What
can you say about a dog that eats avocadoes? But, well, he’s an
agreeable beast. That’s better than a lot of people.
I will not spell a word that has “dgm” in it. Sue me.
Reed [send him mail]
is author of Nekkid
in Austin: Drop Your Inner Child Down a Well.